Bids For Connection

bids for connection

We’re reaching out for connections in different ways. Sometimes we are aware, sometimes we’re not. Sometimes we’re heard, sometimes we’re not, and it can hurt when we aren’t. What is a bid for connection? A bid is an attempt from one person to another for attention, affirmation, affection, or any other positive connection. They can … Read more

What Is Love?

what is love

Love is complex. Too complex to explain it in a shorter sentence. I’ve tried to be as short as possible again. I hope you’ll learn something new today – about love, you, or someone/something else. Love is more than just a feeling. For me to love means to give and to accept, without expecting anything … Read more

Alone In A World Full Of People

Coping with loneliness

Do you ever feel like this? I did too. Now that I know what’s going on, I don’t feel lonely for too long, yet I still do. More often than I’d like to. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Lampelina (@lampelina_blog) You’re not alone. Despite your feelings telling you otherwise. ❤️ P.S. … Read more

You Are Enough


I have nothing to add to this today. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Lampelina (@lampelina_blog) Would you like to add something?

How To Fix A Broken Heart – Part 2

broken heart

Did you ever fall in love with somebody who didn’t return the feelings? If you’re a human, there are many chances that you’ve been there at least once. It’s good to know that the other person actually doesn’t have so much to do with our heart being broken as we might think. Our own mind … Read more

6 Ideas You Can Use Instead of Ghosting

Ghosting can happen in any relationship. It’s never pleasant, because it’s a way of rejection. A nasty one, without a proper closure. Ghosting can be tempting though because it’s easy. Easy doesn’t equal right. Do you agree? Some ideas, you can use instead of ghosting I’m too busy now and I can’t give you my … Read more

Why Do You Push People Away?

Do you ever wonder why are you doing this? There are some of our behaviors that can be really unpleasant to others. It makes sense that it pushes people away. Before you blame others for not liking you, it’s good to ask yourself if there are some errors on your side. I was there too, … Read more