Have you ever been in love with two (or even more) people at once?
If you really love somebody, you’d want them to be happy. Period.
This means that you might stick to one person only or be with more people at the same time, stepping into polyamory – it depends on your shared values with all people involved in your love circle.
This can also mean that you’ll rather stay single for a while. Because you want to be happy too and the other person might not be good for you, no matter how very much attracted you are towards each other.
Not all people who are in love with more than just one person, want to be involved in polyamory. And not all people who are in love with somebody want to be involved in intimate or even distant relationships with the person they love. There are also different kinds of love.
We fall in love for many different reasons and not all of them lead us into good relationships.
You can find more detailed articles about this in the further reading below.
I don’t have anything against polyamory, but I do believe that a relationship with one person can already be quite a challenge on its own. More people can easier lead to more conflicts.
You can’t choose who are you attracted to but you can choose what you’ll do about it.
Do you have any experience with loving more than just one person? What did you do?
How to Handle Being In Love With Two People
Can You Love Two People at the Same Time?
The Rules of Attraction in the Game of Love
Why It’s Normal To Love More Than One Person
Why People Become Attracted to Crushes They Can’t Be With
Why you’re attracted to certain people, and not others