Does life ever get any easier? How many bad things can one person handle? At a time or in life by itself?
I don’t feel sorry for myself, just wondering. How fragile and strong at the same time can a human being be. The most complex machine we still know so little about.
There are so many how to’s out there, the internet is overflown by the information, we have so many books and so much knowledge available. Yet we still know so little when we come to certain situations.
There are things we could be taught at school.
To name just a few of them: kindness, gratitude, empathy, humility, good communication, self-awareness, how to set up the boundaries, how to be a woman/man, etc. How to be a human actually.
I think we’re putting way too much effort into learning things we will never need and way too little about life skills, emotional intelligence being one of them.
I don’t blame anybody. Just wondering.
Were we really born so different or are we much more alike?
It would be interesting if we could measure our feelings. Could we handle the openness we would gain by doing it so? Nobody would look the same to us again, because we all keep secrets. We’re just not prepared for that.
We’ve managed to over distract ourselves. From ourselves mostly. From our feelings. From the feelings, you’d wish you’ve felt but you just don’t. From numbness, from your thoughts, from everything inside of you that can not be seen, just felt.
Being a human is not just. It is super actually if you can see it this way. And enough. Feelings are great, good ones, bad ones and everything in between. It’s what makes us super (supergood and superbad). I guess. Just wondering…