How to forgive yourself?

believe in yourself

I might be “the greatest” in forgiving others, but I’m still unable to forgive myself. I did lots and lots of thinking about that. And trying, reading, watching, talking with a therapist about it,… I can’t give you good advice on my own just yet. But I can share with you some resources I’ve found … Read more

I’m your bad example, part 2

Content warning: not suitable for everybody. I really wanted to let some thoughts out for days, but I just couldn’t write. I was wondering how the hell shall I write while being in such a weird state of mind? The answer was really simple. You just do it. But is it easy to do so? … Read more

Let’s talk about CPTSD, part 2

I wrote about CPTSD already. There is so much more to say about it, but I’m too tired to write these days. After several years of therapy, I’m still getting the feeling that I’m not making any progress and that there is no hope for me at all. This is a common thing for CPTSD. … Read more

Reblog: Good love is “boring”

Bad love is erratic I just finished reading Samantha Irby’s “We Are Never Meeting In Real Life” (recommended, obvs), and in it she talks about her relationship by saying, “I’m in love and it’s boring.” Right on, sister. Too often, we think love is supposed to be manic People celebrate “losing themselves,” and “falling” for … Read more