mental health advocacy
I never struggled to get the attention of men. But it seemed that I mostly attracted “the wrong” ones. And there is only one person to blame – me. One of the most important questions to ask yourself before even think about dating is – would you like to date yourself? You need to be … Read more
Have you ever been in love with two (or even more) people at once? If you really love somebody, you’d want them to be happy. Period. This means that you might stick to one person only or be with more people at the same time, stepping into polyamory – it depends on your shared values … Read more
This time I’m just passing forward something I saw earlier. I hope it comes handy to some of you too. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Unapologetically Surviving (@unapologeticallysurviving) I wrote a a little something about this a while ago. It’s here if you’ve missed it: Can you enjoy having sex after … Read more
A while ago, I wrote a letter to my special someone. This post will be closely connected to it. I imagined love in many other ways, but never like this. I never thought that unrequited love will give so much life and love to me. From me. I guess it makes sense in a way. … Read more
It took me many years to find the one I’ve been searching for all these years. And it’s not who I imagined it to be. I’m not talking about a prince on a white horse, nor am I talking about a man or even another person. I’ve fell in love with myself. Damn, how narcissistic … Read more
Bad love is erratic I just finished reading Samantha Irby’s “We Are Never Meeting In Real Life” (recommended, obvs), and in it she talks about her relationship by saying, “I’m in love and it’s boring.” Right on, sister. Too often, we think love is supposed to be manic People celebrate “losing themselves,” and “falling” for … Read more
“In times past, men and women tended to meet at work, through mutual friends, or at social venues such as church or sports clubs. In other words, their relationship was rooted in a pre-existing social ecology where others could generally be trusted. This could inhibit contemptible dating behavior as wrongdoers faced opprobrium from the pre-existing … Read more