Many things in life depend on our point of view. The way we see them and the way we feel them.
The world is as it is. Situations are as they are. People are as they are. You are as you are.
Your strengths are your strengths and your weaknesses are your weaknesses. But you can turn many bad things into good ones if you only change your point of view.
I can turn even the good ones into bad. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
I would like to tell you how you turn the bad into good. How to change the point of the view. But there is no universal rule.
You can read tons of tutorials on how to turn things around. And it’s great to know them. Yet there is only one rule when it comes to you and it’s a thing you learn by trial and error. You have to find what works best for you. Nobody can’t figure anything out instead of you. They can only show you the possible ways that worked for others.
Sometimes I manage to see, sometimes I don’t. The worst thing for me is to give up to these kinds of moments.
If I only see the bad side, I’d go for a walk. Or a hike. Clearing myself from as many distractions as possible and let myself just be. This usually clears my point of view. If it doesn’t work, I’ll do the same thing for as many times as necessary. Consistency is what works for me. But it’s not always easy to be consistent though.
What works best for you?
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