Relationships can be really painful sometimes, even if you’re doing your best. You are only responsible for your own actions, but you aren’t responsible for somebody else’s. And that’s good news.
It’s good to be prepared. Even before you spot a toxic behavior it’s good to know, that everybody can hurt you in a way, even if they don’t mean or want to. And you can hurt others.
You can save yourself some bad feelings by being aware of your expectations from others and be aware that nobody owes you anything. Even if you think it would be nice and so on. It would be nice, but it still doesn’t mean it’s going to happen. It’s how the world function. I don’t like it, you might not like it either, but this is how it is. And we won’t change that, at least not today.
The sooner you wake up, the better. Expectations can only let us down. The same goes for your relationship with you. If you’re going to expect too much from yourself, you might end up disappointed too.
The truth is, people will hurt you in your life. And you will hurt some.
But it’s not that everybody is doing this on purpose and not everybody is aware of their impact on you. We all are these people.
Some people are doing bad things on purpose or they just don’t care if somebody else gets hurt.
This behavior tells more about them than you.
This is why it’s good to set clear boundaries in your relationships. And not taking things too personally.
We will always hurt each other and ourselves, but you can spare yourself lots of pain.
It might help if you stay mindful and kind. You can always set clear boundaries and stay kind at the same time. But it comes down to you and what message do you want to project into the world around you and most importantly – to you.
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